A JEWISH
WEDDING GUIDE
01
Separation Before
the Wedding
The couple does not see each other for about 24 hours before the wedding, building anticipation for their reunion.
Bedeken (Veiling)
The groom places a veil over the bride’s face.
This symbolizes modesty and that the groom is marrying for inner beauty
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Chuppah
(Wedding Canopy)
The ceremony takes place under a canopy called a chuppah, representing the couple’s new home together, open on all sides to welcome others.
Processional
The groom walks down first, then the bride. In many traditions, the bride circles the groom 7 times, symbolizing unity and building a new world together
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Kiddushin
(Betrothal Blessings)
Rabi recited prayer over wine and couple
drinks from the same cup, symbolizing shared life.
Ring Exchange
The groom places a ring on the bride’s finger and says: “Behold, you are consecrated to me…”
(In modern weddings, both partners may exchange rings.)
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Ketubah
(Marriage Contract)
The ketubah is read aloud. It outlines the groom’s responsibilities and the couple’s commitments.
Sheva Brachot
(Seven Blessings)
Seven special blessings are recited over wine, celebrating love, joy, and the creation of a new family.
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Breaking the Glass
The groom breaks a glass with his foot.
Guests shout
“Mazel Tov!” This act often symbolizes remembering the destruction of the Second Temple even in joyful moments
Yichud (Private Room)
The couple spends a few minutes alone together right after the ceremony. This marks their first private moment as a married couple.
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The Hora
(Celebration Dance)
After the ceremony, traditionally the first dance is hora—a lively circle dance. The bride and groom are lifted on
chairs while everyone dances around them, showing joy and community support